I've Got A New Attitude

Like success, failure is many things to people. With a Positive Mental Attitude, failure is a learning experience, a rung on the ladder, a plateau at which to get your thoughts in order and prepare to try again      -W Clement Stone

      A Positive Mental Attitude is all that you need to cultivate a successful mind set. And when I say positive I am not referring to “The Secret” or “The Law of Attraction” where the motto is “If you think it, it will come”. Most people do not have too much of an idea about where they’re going or what the end results of their life will be. Instead they simply rely on imitating others and doing what others do. We tend to conform, hide our true identities and label ourselves based on our outside environment. The truth is we are much greater, much more superior and much more mysterious than our conceptual mind. It is because of this that we are much more powerful than we actually believe. This can be overcome by any person who chooses to embrace the moments of opportunity as well as the obstacles that block our paths from time to time. Life only becomes hard and unfair when we spend more time complaining about problems and less time trying to create solutions. Life is not a succession of playoff games and everyday should be treated like it’s the championship. Pretend that you’re on your death bed and appreciate that time will not stand still for anybody. The reality that we live in was created in line with our thoughts and beliefs and as a consequence “what we believe on the inside manifests on the outside”. It is virtually impossible to control the circumstances created by your outside environment, however you have total control over how you react to those situations. A large barrier to developing a positive mind set is that we place huge emphasis on people’s opinions about us. Regardless of what people may say or think about you, it has absolutely no bearing on who you truly are. That is unless you fall prey to their opinions and begin to believe it yourself. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself, so why would you accept another individual’s reality as your own? When you focus on the negative, your mind will only continue to generate more thoughts that are negative in nature. A key to developing a positive mental attitude involves you making the shift from negativity to living a life always moving towards your dreams. Continue to cultivate your brain with positive affirmations. I personally use this affirmation “Every day in every way I’m getting better and better”. Below are a few steps you can take to help you with this.

1.      Focus your attention on what you can do and what you will achieve.

2.      Read positive books and do things to enhance your life.

3.      Manage your time around high value, high priority things.

4.      Limit your distractions and the time spent on Tv, Social media, email, & text messaging.

5.      Limit your use of words like can’t, wont, and never.

6.      Surround yourself with positive people who can be a positive influence on your life.

7.      Invest in yourself, listen to positive messages, and watch positive YouTube videos.

8.      Let go of negative emotions like anger and resentment, they serve no purpose.

9.      Let go of those limiting beliefs and develop some empowering beliefs that are aligned with your values and goals.

10.  Take responsibility for you own life and what you can control

·         Your thoughts

·         Your actions

·         Your behaviors

Enjoy a new found freedom coupled with increased finances when you make your mind up to seize ownership and accountability for your life experiences. Remember it all begins with one thing and one thing alone 

                      "YOUR ATTITUDE"

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YOU DON'T WANT IT BAD ENOUGH

A Dream Does Not Become A Reality Through Magic. It Takes Sweat Determination And Hard Work.

-Colin Powell

   Ask anybody, read articles, biographies, or even look at YouTube videos of successful people. They will all say the same thing. They worked their butts off night and day to achieve their goals. You have to be willing to make extreme sacrifices to reach that mountain top. This means at times you may have to give up Television, hanging out with friends, playing video games, spending time with loved ones and even going without sleep. All successful people have made these sacrifices in one form or another. You have to condition yourself to fight for what you want, simple as that. Get a clear representation of how much money you want to make and use that image as a motivational instrument. Trust me, it will get hard sometimes. That negative voice in your brain will attempt to deter you. But you cannot under any circumstances believe what it says, make that positive voice the dominant factor in your mind. Then show that negative voice that you’re in charge and that there’s nothing it can say that will affect you. That negative influence tends to expose its self whenever you hold a good plan that can be turned into something amazing. That voice that you hear is actually the whisper of fear. Scores of citizens hunt for the easiest opportunities because they do not wish to do battle with the fearful side of their minds. Despite the trepidation there are those individual with enough balls and courage to discipline themselves to work hard. These are the select few who are able to obtain admittance to a kingdom where entrance is deprived to everyone else. Their willingness to face difficulties and hardships is like having a key to a unique confidential treasure room. Hard work pays off so beware of those who tell you otherwise. Using swift, trouble-free methods of achievement will only lead to things being gone faster and easier than they were originally obtained.  Your financial life will begin to take on a whole new shape and reach new heights the moment you stop fearing hard work. Be proactive because in order to get more money you need to put in more work.

There's No Such Thing As Easy Street

Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
~Orison Swett Marden

      On any journey to success where the outcome is to magnify your income you are going to come across some dead ends, brick walls, and gigantic hurdles. These are all character building events which in turn make you stronger. You can never appreciate what you have managed to acquire if it comes to you easily. If getting rich was easy and the process was smooth sailing it would be where 97% of the world was wealthy and only 3% were poor. But in reality it is the other way around and do you know why? Because only 3 out of every 100 people make the choice to do what’s necessary, fight the odds, go toe to toe with opposition and persevere. The other 97 people make the choice to do what’s necessary but once those road blocks begin to pop up, they loose momentum, they loose faith and most importantly they loose sight of the dream that once propelled them. Yes, it’s true that you reap what you sow, and in this day in age everybody wants to enjoy the fruits of the harvest but nobody wants to plow the fields, plant the seeds, then water and nurture them till growth. Don’t be a prisoner of your own bad habits. If you put in 10% you’re only going to get 10%, if you put in 100% you will gladly get back 100%. That’s all it really takes. The road to riches is full of pot holes and detours that are placed there simply to deter you but not to stop you. Let your faith ride shotgun while will and determination hang out in the back seat. These passengers in your vehicle will help you navigate the treacherous roads ahead, just trust them, they’ll always have your best interest at heart. Remember, a speed bump will never stop you completely from entering the parking lot and finding your parking space.

Drive safely Guys!

Your Final Destination

        WHAT ARE GOALS AND WHY ARE THEY IMPORTANT?

 Goals are things that we invasion, Goal are thing that we plan to achieve, Goals are blueprints that serve as  road maps for the things that we wish to attain. Goals are important simply because if you don't have a destination how can you ever expect to get any where? With out goals your just a weather beaten plastic bag blowing in the wind aimlessly. And what happens to a weather beaten plastic bag blowing in the wind aimlessly? It ends up where ever, when ever, however! Lets take it a little bit deeper shall we? Most people do set goal which is a good thing. The problem is not that they aim to high and miss it's that they aim to low and hit the "bulls eye".  People should set goals that are absurd, goals that force you to make something of your self and become a better person in the process of achieving them.. Don't be afraid to dream at all. Shoot for that moon and even if you miss you will still land among the stars. Cliche, I know, but that still does not take away from the effectiveness of the message it conveys. Write your goals down, review them on a constant basis, check your progress every 6 months or so. Make corrections and adjustments as you see fit. This is one of the of habits that needs to be learned, nurtured and mastered in order to change your income.  The Wright brothers wanted to help man fly by defying gravity "accomplished". Henry Fords goal was to create a car that was affordable in his era "accomplished". Thomas Edison's goal was to create an incandescent light bulb.. and as you can see physically and metaphorically it was an extreme "success". The iPhone was a goal, the Flat screen was a goal, the internet was a goal, everything that we love and cherish today started out as a thought that turned into a goal. Me personally starting this blog to help people better themselves and create extraordinary lives, for me is one of my a goals. Dreaming big and thinking big can only lead to bigger things. What do you have to lose? I highly recommend that whenever you set a goal and accomplish it, you celebrate. Reward yourself for a job well done, there is nothing wrong with patting your self on your back so do it. Go out to diner, buy yourself something, do anything, it does mater. Just celebrate. This process never get old or out dated. "Now get your butts out there and achieve some goals while energizing your self esteem at the same darn time.

Courage is all you need

Fear is your biggest enemy. What is fear? It's an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.
 A little fear is good, it keeps you from doing things that you may regret, but it also keeps you from doing things that may benefit you as well. Most people have at one point or another suffered from fear of failure which is quite normal. It is the fear of success that can be the most harmful and critically paralyzing. How does this fear work you may ask? It works like this, you come up with a great idea then you tell a few people about it and you are instantly met with negative feedback. This is when fear steps in and takes over in the form of that little voice in your head that continues to spew loads of negativity. "You can't do it, it will never work, your not smart enough" These are some of the things fear begins to tell you and sadly more often than not you believe it and don't even attempt to take action on that idea. Overcoming this fear is crucial to the success of any challenge you take  on his is where the power of positive thought can be your biggest strength .The only way to get past fear is through courage. Have the courage to say to yourself "I can do it, I'm smart enough, this will work for me". Change that mental conversation with yourself, seek out people who listen to your idea and encourage you to follow you dream and even have positive advise for you. For every nay sayer you come across take a second to step back and analyze that individual. What are they doing, what have they accomplished, what makes their opinion valid? It's pretty much like taking relationship advise from a person who has been divorced 5 times. The moral of the story, don't let fear stop you from moving forward and being your best you. You will never be successful with out failure and you cannot fail if your to scared to even try.

THERE IS NOTHING MORE POWERFUL THAN A POSITIVE ATTITUDE, SO STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE WITH NEGATIVE ONES

Lights.........Camera........ Action

Today take action, then take action, and when your done with that, take some more action. Action is all that separates a dreamer from a success. It's great to have ideas and thoughts of great ways to increase your income but if you do not take action then it's nothing but a pipe dream. There's a saying that holds true "Actions Speak Louder Than Words". So quit sitting around talking about it and get your ass up and be about it!! Everybody wants to live that high life but nobody wants to take the high road to get there. When you look at some ones success all you see is the end of the story, but you do not see the beginning and the middle which is the most crucial part of the whole experience. If you think dreams come true through the process of "osmosis" where you put pictures of what you want under your pillow and the magically appear in your possession the next day............ You have popped one to many molly's. Work is the only way to create something worth while and work is nothing but another word for action. I know the word work has a huge reputation for being hard just like dreams have a reputation for being unattainable. It's all about how you look at things. Change your perspective from "I have to work hard to achieve things" to "I am taking massive action to achieve my goals". I guarantee not only will you succeed but you will instantly be inspired to do all that you can to get to where you want to go.

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? TIME WAITS FOR NO MAN OR WOMAN!!!!

"Mine" your business

Your mind is the best asset that you have. It's funny how something that we were given for free is not valued or used to its full potential. Everything that you see around you and use on a daily basis excluding water and sunlight was once a mere thought in the mind of an inspired individual. Look out your window and you will see plenty of proof that thoughts become things. Your brain is a muscle, the more you exercise it the stronger it gets. Before a person can even begin to increase their income they must first condition themselves to create better thought patterns. If you have bad views when it comes to money you must change it immediately. Stop focusing on lack or limitation, those thoughts will never serve you in a positive way. Change the mental conversation that you have in your head about your financial situation. Don't focus your mind power on why you cannot afford it, instead conjure up thoughts about what you can do to get the cash you need to buy it. Believe it or not, the mind really is a terrible thing to waste, so do yourself and the people who depend on you a big favor and put that brain to good use. The person who thinks they can and the person who thinks they can not are usually both right.